Real Sex – Why Everything You Learned About Sex is Wrong

Co-authored with Mike Lousada

Mike and I spontaneously planned this book one evening in 2015, while sharing a bottle of wine at the little terrace in one of our favourite places in the world, the Deetjens Inn in Big Sur, California. We spent the next year writing it, and another year editing and marketing with our dream publishers, Hay House, legacy of self-help guru Louise Hay.

In 2018 the book has also been translated into Spanish.

In the book, we describe the pressure we’re living in, stretched between porn-defined performance culture on the one hand, and suppression of our sexuality on the other. We offer Seven Keys to experience what we call Real Sex; authentic, living, breathing sexual connection, and offer a series of exercises for you to do on your own or with a partner.